{"id":1670,"date":"2019-10-22T01:13:14","date_gmt":"2019-10-22T01:13:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wordstoelate.com\/blog\/?page_id=1670"},"modified":"2025-02-10T10:09:59","modified_gmt":"2025-02-10T07:09:59","slug":"when-children-misbehave-its-the-mother-that-often-gets-the-most-blame","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/wordstoelate.com\/blog\/when-children-misbehave-its-the-mother-that-often-gets-the-most-blame\/","title":{"rendered":"When Children misbehave, it\u2019s the mother that often gets the most blame."},"content":{"rendered":"\r\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\r\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/parenting.firstcry.com\/articles\/10-helpful-tips-for-parents-to-handle-naughty-kids\/\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"673\" class=\"wp-image-1267\" src=\"https:\/\/wordstoelate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Kids-Misbehave-1024x673.jpg\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wordstoelate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Kids-Misbehave-1024x673.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/wordstoelate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Kids-Misbehave-300x197.jpg 300w, https:\/\/wordstoelate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Kids-Misbehave-768x505.jpg 768w, https:\/\/wordstoelate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Kids-Misbehave.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\r\n<\/div>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>I once met an angry guy who was saying this to his wife, &#8220;you gave birth to thieves and robbers, you bore me criminals gangsters and harlots, how I regret raising such a family.&#8221; What led to these laments was because his son was being held in a juvenile detention center, and when he was asked to go get him, he refused but instead called the mother and told her, &#8220;your son has become a bandit, go get him at the detention headquarters, I would not continue to\u00a0 bear the humiliation I have faced and the way it has ruined my good name, those filthy maggots your womb produces I can&#8217;t stand them.&#8221;<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>But upon looking into things much deeper, I came to realize that this was the fellow who had failed to secure a job for many years, when he was forced to <a href=\"https:\/\/elibrary.worldbank.org\/doi\/10.1596\/978-1-4648-1281-1_ch2\">immigrate to a neighbouring country<\/a> to seek fortune. Many more years passed as he lived there sending from very little to nearly nothing back home. 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