An elderly man once said to me, “wedlock is such an unfair game, you will find either man taking advantage of the woman or the woman is taking advantage of the man’s weaknesses, its either way or the other, if you are not the oppressed then you must be the oppressor, there can never be fair play. There will always be one who takes advantage of the other.
I have seen men who take advantage of women and have also seen women who take advantage of weak men.